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105 ................................................................................. February 2, 2010
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Why Perspective and Balance in Life Helps You Succeed
By Patrick J. Cohn, Ph.D.
I've always thought that a good perspective of sports in an athlete's life is very important to success. And this past weekend, I discovered another confirmation of my theory, which I'll reveal in a moment. First, allow me to explain my reasoning...
Dedicated athletes, who spend a ton of time training each week, are prone to get trapped in the success syndrome. They fall into the trap of defining their self-worth based on their performance in sports. If you define yourself based on your sport, you lack a balance between sports and other areas of your life.
When you define your self-worth based on your success (or lack of success) in sports, your sport is out of balance with your life. Having a greater perspective of how sports fits into your life is valuable. You'll feel less pressure to succeed and be happier in the pursuit of your goals, which is a good thing.
When you have a more balance in your life and sport does not consume you 24/7, you can play with more freedom and relaxation.
The number one tennis player in the world, Roger Federer, just won his 16th major championship in tennis, which is a new record. I believe his perspective on sports and the role of tennis in his life helps him play relaxed and focused tennis. Federer was very content Sunday after beating Andy Murray in straight sets 6-3, 6-4, 7-6 for his 16th Grand Slam title. But he is also content with his life off the court.
"I'm excited about life, and there is not only tennis," Federer said one day after defeating Andy Murray to win the 2010 Australian Open.
Keeping sports in perspective in your life can also help in times of adversity. Experienced athletes have the advantage of greater perspective of the role of sports in their life. For Federer, finding balance with tennis and his family has been a key to his success...
"Having kids and being a father now and being married enhances everything," Federer said. "I'm such a happy person today to see how well everything is working out for me. It just makes me extremely happy, extremely relaxed and it allows me to play good tennis, and I couldn't ask for more."
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Federer has strived to keep a good balance between his family and sports. "I feel like I've always had a good distance from the game. You don't want to feel like you have to play tennis, because it's something that was an opportunity, and now that I have it I want to savor it as long as I can."
Federer's vision of his tennis and how it fits into his life, gives him clarity, which allows him get through the tough times as well as savor the good times. "But off the court, it's a matter of relaxing and enjoying it, you know, seeing friends and families. There's more important things than tennis, after all. I think that's something I've always had a clear vision of how my life is, you know. I think that's also helped me to go through better and tougher phases because I know this is an incredible trip I'm on," said Federer.
When you have greater perspective and balance in life, sports is not life or death. You're not as hungry to win or put as much pressure on yourself to succeed. Then, you can play more relaxed. "My game is not as taxing as other players' games. I also think I have a very relaxed mind when it comes to the game of tennis. I'll definitely try my best on the court. I'm professional the way I'm supposed to be," said Federer after winning the championship.
What are the keys to balancing sport with other areas of your life? First, I suggest you be mindful of not defining your self-worth based on your success in sports. Your self-worth or self-esteem should be based on "the person" instead of "the athlete." You are way more than an athlete.
Second, find other hobbies and interests outside of sports that you can enjoy. Spend quality time with your family that does not involve traveling to competition or training for your sport.
Third, keep sports in perspective within your life. Sports is just one activity in your life. Sports may be a big part of your life, but if you stopped competing today, what can you embrace in your life?
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Sports
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"Guys feed off enthusiasm and passion..."
Brett Favre believes passion and enthusiasm is one of the keys to his success and long career. He feeds off it and his team and fans feed off it as well...
“I have the same enthusiasm. I'll say this: As long as I'm out there, the enthusiasm and the passion that you see is real. I know guys feed off that and fans enjoy that because it's real and genuine. That you can't fake."
~Brett Favre, NFL

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