{"id":19259,"date":"2024-05-30T06:53:56","date_gmt":"2024-05-30T10:53:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/sports-psychology-blog\/?p=19259"},"modified":"2025-07-28T05:19:03","modified_gmt":"2025-07-28T09:19:03","slug":"when-parents-harp-on-their-athletes-mistakes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/sports-psychology-blog\/when-parents-harp-on-their-athletes-mistakes\/","title":{"rendered":"When Parents Harp on Their Athletes\u2019 Mistakes"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In this video, sport parents will learn how to be a supportive parent versus a distracting one. 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