{"id":2070,"date":"2011-08-14T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2011-08-14T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/sports_psychology_blog\/?p=2070"},"modified":"2025-06-13T05:33:08","modified_gmt":"2025-06-13T09:33:08","slug":"why-high-expectations-can-cause-unhappiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/sports-psychology-blog\/why-high-expectations-can-cause-unhappiness\/","title":{"rendered":"Why High Expectations Can Cause Unhappiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/sports-psychology-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/getpsychedicon-e1448473208615.jpg\" alt=\"Sports Psychology Podcast\" class=\"wp-image-1412\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/sports-psychology-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/getpsychedicon-e1448473208615.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/sports-psychology-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/getpsychedicon-e1448473208615-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>In this week&#8217;s sports psychology podcast, mental game of sports expert, Dr. Patrick Cohn answers a mental game question from a professional soccer player about high expectations. 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