How Do I Calm Down Before a Game?

Overcome pregame nerves or anxiety

How Do I Deal with Pregame Nerves?

Article Summary: Athletes can calm down before games by learning why nerves happen, how they affect performance, and which tools help control them. Pregame anxiety usually comes from pressure, expectations, and fear of mistakes. If you do not manage nerves, they can increase tension, create overthinking, and weaken confidence. The best approach is to use quick tools like breathing, positive self-talk, and visualization, while also developing structured pregame routines. With preparation and practice, you can turn nerves into energy and focus instead of letting them become anxiety.

Why Athletes Feel Pregame Nerves

Every athlete has felt nervous before competition. You may notice your heart beating faster, your muscles tightening, or your thoughts racing as the game approaches. These signs are the body’s natural response to pressure and expectation.

Worry comes from how important you view the event. The more meaning you attach to the game, the stronger your anxiety grows. You may worry about making mistakes, disappointing others, or failing to meet expectations. This pressure creates nervous energy that feels overwhelming.

External factors also add to pregame nerves. Parents, coaches, and teammates may expect you to perform at a certain level. Social media, rankings, and comparisons to other athletes also create stress. When you combine internal pressure with outside expectations, anxiety becomes intense.

It’s important to understand that nerves are not unique to you. Even elite athletes who compete in professional championships report strong pregame nerves. The difference is that they have learned how to manage those nerves instead of being controlled by them…

How Nerves Affect Performance

Nerves can affect your body, your focus, and your confidence if they are not controlled. The first impact is physical. Anxiety creates muscle tension, which disrupts rhythm, timing, and smooth movement. Instead of playing freely, you feel tight and mechanical.

The second impact is mental. Pregame nerves often lead to overthinking, which pulls your attention away from execution. Instead of trusting your training, you focus on results, potential mistakes, or outside opinions. This mental clutter interferes with performance under pressure.

The third impact is emotional. When you fear mistakes or outcomes, confidence begins to drop. You may play timidly, avoid risks, or hesitate in key moments. Athletes who once performed with trust begin to hold back because anxiety clouds their judgment.

The problem grows worse when you fight against nerves. Telling yourself “stop being nervous” usually backfires and creates more frustration. Instead of calming down, the pressure builds, and the nerves feel even stronger. You need a clear plan for managing them, not ignoring them.

Mental Game Tools to Calm Down Before Competition

You cannot eliminate pregame nerves completely, but you can control them. Use these mental tools to calm your body and steady your mind before stepping into competition.

1. Controlled Breathing

Breathing is one of the fastest ways to calm down. Slow, controlled breathing lowers your heart rate and reduces muscle tension. Inhale for four counts, hold briefly, and exhale for six counts. Repeat this cycle several times until you feel grounded. This simple technique restores calm and prepares you to focus.

2. Positive Self-Talk

Your internal dialogue shapes how you feel. If you tell yourself “don’t mess up,” you increase fear. Replace negative statements with confident reminders such as “I’m prepared” or “I’m ready.” Speak to yourself the way a supportive coach would. Positive self-talk builds composure and reduces anxiety.

3. Clear Process Goals

When you feel nervous, shift your focus to controllables. Set one or two process goals such as “stay balanced,” “see the ball early,” or “commit to my routine.” These goals keep your attention in the present moment instead of drifting toward fear or results.

4. Mental Imagery

Visualization is a powerful tool for calming nerves. Close your eyes and picture yourself competing with confidence. Imagine moving freely, staying composed, and trusting your training. Visualization helps prepare your mind for performance before the game begins.

5. Embrace the Jitters

How do you know if you have pregame jitters vs. pregame anxiety or worry? Pregame jitters are normal and even helpful. You feel butterflies in your stomach, maybe some extra energy, but you are still able to focus on your game. Jitters mean your body is preparing to compete, and once the competition begins, those feelings usually fade as you get absorbed in playing.

Pregame anxiety or worry is different. Anxiety lingers and distracts you from your performance. Instead of a short burst of nerves, your thoughts race with fears about mistakes, outcomes, or disappointing others. Anxiety often shows up with tense muscles, trouble breathing smoothly, or a feeling that you cannot relax even after the game starts.

Pregame Routines That Boost Confidence

While quick tools are helpful, the most consistent way to manage pregame jitters or nerves is to create a structured routine. A pregame routine builds familiarity and reduces uncertainty. When you follow the same steps every time, your body knows it is time to perform.

Start by including physical preparation. Warm up your body with movements that activate your muscles, build rhythm, and match your sport’s demands. Physical readiness reduces nervous energy and helps you feel in control.

Next, add mental preparation to your routine. Use breathing, positive self-talk, and imagery at specific points during warm-up. For example, you might take three deep breaths before stretching or repeat a cue word before drills. Pairing mental and physical actions builds consistency.

Your routine should also include emotional preparation. Remind yourself of your training, your effort, and the reasons you love competing. Many athletes forget to connect with enjoyment before games. When you start with gratitude and excitement, you feel less fear.

Confidence grows from preparation and repetition. When you know you have trained, visualized, and warmed up properly, you feel ready. Confidence does not appear by accident. It is built through routines that remind you of your preparation and ability.

FAQ – Why Do Athletes Get Nervous Before Games?

Athletes feel pregame nerves because of pressure, expectations, and fear of mistakes. The body responds with adrenaline and muscle tension, while the mind worries about results or outside opinions. These nerves are normal, but they must be managed effectively.

How do professionals calm nerves?

Professional athletes use structured routines and mental skills to control nerves. They practice controlled breathing, positive self-talk, and visualization regularly. Pros also view nerves as energy that helps them focus, rather than a weakness that must be avoided.

Can nerves ever help performance?

Yes, a moderate level of “nerves”jitters” can improve performance. Jitters can increase focus, energy, and alertness when they remain under control. The key is managing nerves so they energize you instead of overwhelming you.

What happens if I ignore my nerves?

If you try to ignore nerves, they usually grow stronger. Anxiety feeds on avoidance. The better approach is to acknowledge nerves, then use tools and routines to channel them into energy and confidence. Is it possible to feel no nerves at all?

Almost no athlete feels zero nerves before competition, even at the highest levels. The goal is not to eliminate nerves but to manage them. With practice, you can reduce anxiety and use the remaining energy to sharpen focus.

Take the Next Step

If pregame nerves hold back your game, you do not need to let them control your performance anymore. You can learn how to calm down, steady your focus, and step into competition with confidence. Pregame jitters in athletes are normal, but with the right strategies, they become manageable.

We work with athletes every day who want to compete without fear and handle nerves better. If you are ready to build routines that prepare you mentally and physically for game day, book a free session today.


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Patrick Cohn, Ph.D. Owner, Master Mental Coach
Peak Performance Sports, LLC is the brainchild of Dr. Patrick Cohn. Dr. Cohn received a Ph.D. is sports psychology from The University of Virginia. Peak Performance Sports is a leader in online mental performance coaching and sports psychology resources for athletes, parents of athletes, and coaches. Dr. Cohn is also the director of instruction for the MGCP sport psychology certification program.

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