How Do I Stop Choking in Big Moments?

How to Stop Choking in Big Moments

Mental Game Tips to Stop Choking in Sports

Summary: Choking in sports happens when athletes under perform in big moments because pressure shifts their focus from execution to fear of failure and outcomes. Common mistakes include overthinking mechanics, worrying about mistakes, and holding high expectations. To stay composed, athletes must refocus on the process, trust their training, manage body tension, and accept mistakes. With the right mental strategies, athletes can compete with freedom instead of fear and perform their best under pressure.

What is Choking in Sports?

Choking in sports happens when you under perform in competition compared to your normal ability. You know you have the skills. You practice well. But in pressure moments, you freeze, overthink, or tighten up.

This can happen in a championship game, a playoff match, or a big showcase. Your performance drops, not because your skills disappear, but because pressure takes over your mind and body. Choking is not about lack of talent. It is about how you respond to pressure.

What Causes Athletes to Choke Under Pressure?

Pressure moments change the way your mind works. Instead of trusting your training, you start thinking too much about the outcome. You worry about mistakes, letting down teammates, or failing in front of others.

Your body reacts to this worry. You feel tension in your muscles. You lose rhythm and timing. Your focus shifts away from execution to fear of failure. Choking happens when you let the pressure of the moment take control of your thoughts and actions.

The Mental Game Mistakes That Lead to Choking

Most athletes make the same mental mistakes in pressure moments:

  • 1. Focusing on outcomes. You think about winning, losing, or what others will think instead of focusing on execution.
  • 2. Overthinking skills. You start controlling your mechanics instead of letting them flow naturally.
  • 3. Fear of failure. You play to avoid mistakes instead of playing to perform your best.
  • 4. High expectations. You expect perfect performance, which creates pressure and frustration.

These mistakes take you out of the present moment. They push your mind toward fear instead of trust.

How to Stop Choking in Pressure Moments

To stop choking, you must change how you think and focus during competition. Use these mental game strategies to stay composed and play with trust.

Refocus on the process. Your job is not to control the scoreboard, but to control what you do in the moment. Break the game down into one play, one point, or one shot at a time. Ask yourself, “What’s my job right now?” Before games, write down three simple process goals such as seeing the ball early, committing to your routine, or using a breath between plays. Keep your attention locked on those controllables.

Trust your training. In pressure moments, your mechanics do not disappear. What hurts you is doubt. When you feel yourself tightening up, remind yourself you have trained these skills thousands of times. Shift your attention from mechanics to feel, rhythm, and tempo. In practice, play “trust rounds” where you compete without analyzing technique. The more you practice letting go, the easier it becomes in games.

Control your body tension. Pressure creates tight muscles and rushed movements. Learn to reset your body before critical plays. Use a slow breath, relax your shoulders, and release tension in your hands. Add these resets into your pre-performance routines so they become automatic. You want to feel loose, not tight, when the game is on the line.

Accept mistakes. You cannot play perfect, especially under pressure. When you fear mistakes, you play timid and lose confidence. Instead, accept that mistakes are part of sports. If you miss, recover quickly and stay aggressive. Tell yourself, “Next play,” and move on. Confidence comes from focusing forward, not replaying errors in your head.

Training Confidence and Trust for Big Games

You cannot flip a switch in competition. Confidence and trust must be trained before big games.

  • Confidence comes from preparation. Track small wins in practice and games. Build a record of success that proves you can perform.
  • Trust comes from letting go. Practice playing without over-controlling your movements. Focus on rhythm, flow, and feel.
  • Pressure training. Put yourself in pressure situations during practice. Compete with consequences. Learn to respond with calm and focus.

When you build confidence and train trust, you are less likely to choke under pressure. You compete with freedom instead of fear.


 FAQ – Why do athletes choke in sports?

Athletes choke because they focus too much on outcomes, overthink their skills, and let fear of failure control them. This mental shift creates tension, distracts focus, and blocks natural performance.

How do pros handle pressure?

Top athletes stay present, trust their training, and use routines to stay calm. They accept mistakes, focus on execution, and play with confidence instead of fear.


Get Help to Stop Choking in Big Moments

If you struggle with choking in sports, you do not have to figure it out alone. You can learn proven mental game strategies to handle pressure and perform with confidence. Book a free session today to start training your mental game. Do not let pressure in big moments hold you back from your best performance.


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Patrick Cohn, Ph.D. Owner, Master Mental Coach
Peak Performance Sports, LLC is the brainchild of Dr. Patrick Cohn. Dr. Cohn received a Ph.D. is sports psychology from The University of Virginia. Peak Performance Sports is a leader in online mental performance coaching and sports psychology resources for athletes, parents of athletes, and coaches. Dr. Cohn is also the director of instruction for the MGCP sport psychology certification program.