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Mental Game Article
Performing
Your Best When You Are Outmatched
By Patrick J. Cohn, Ph.D.
Competitiveness
is a quality that all champion athletes posses – they
simply hate to lose or love to win and this drives them to succeed.
However, a strong competitive drive can work against some athletes
because even with the smallest of failures or setbacks – they
lose confidence, become frustrated with themselves, and lose motivation.
Competition in
sports sometimes is lopsided. One competition (or team) might possess
superior physical skills to the next. A blowout competition can
be trying for both teams or individuals involved. The
losing team or person can feel frustrated and lose confidence quickly.
What’s the downside for the winning team? The winning team
can lose interest quickly when they feel a lack of challenge according
to Dr. Mihaly Csikszentmihaly….
Dr. "C" as I
call him, is a psychologist at the University of Chicago who studied
the phenomenon of “flow” throughout his career. “Flow” is
sort of a zone state that helps athletes have fun and feel fully
focused during performance.
Dr. C. studied
a variety of athletes—basketball players, dancers,
rock climbers, chess players, factory workers and other performers—to
understand why people enjoy activities even when there are no inherent
rewards present (Autotelic as he describes it). He hypothesized that
when people become fully absorbed in an activity, they reach a state
described as flow.
In his book “Flow in Sports,” Dr.
C. maintains four elements as prerequisites to getting into flow:
- Challenge-Skills balance
- Merging of action and awareness
- Clear Goals
- Availability of instant feedback
We know that
all four elements above are present in sports. First, sports are
challenging by definition. Second, sports usually match the skills
of individuals or teams in a competitive environment. Third, the
goals of sports are clear—to hit a jump shot or
to sink a ten foot putt. Lastly, athletes get instant feedback related
to their performance—whether or not they miss the basket or
sink the putt.
Dr. C. believes
that athletes find the flow channel when they feel challenged and
perceive their skills match the challenge. Flow happens between
the state of anxiety and boredom. When you feel overmatched, anxiety
or stress can ensue. Likewise, when you are superior to the competition,
boredom can set in because you don’t feel challenged
enough, which leads to a poor focus.
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Thus, a lopsided
competition can present mental game issues and challenges for both
parties. A superior opponent’s challenge
is to stay focused and into the match. A weaker opponent’s
challenge is to remain poised and not become frustrated.
In today’s newsletter, I want to focus on mental game strategies
when you feel outmatched by the competition. What’s the best
way to handle yourself well in this situation? The top mental game
mistakes are to worry about losing the game, focus on what others
will think if you lose, and get frustrated that you are losing the
game by six goals.
I certainly encourage
my students to stay confident in their performance when on the
losing end. Huge shifts in momentum can turn the competition around
rapidly. You might have saw a massive change in momentum
during game four of the 2008 NBA finals. In this pivotal game,
the Lakers were leading the Celtics by a whopping 24 points in
game four of the NBA finals. The Celtics changed the momentum of
the game in the second half, made a big comeback, and beat the
Lakers 97-91 to take a 3-1 lead. The Celtics went on to win the
championship.
However, sometimes
winning might not be a realistic option when the game is a real
blowout. If you are overpowered by the competition, your goals
are to perform your best no matter the score, stay composed so
you can grind it out, and learn from the experience. Let’s
examine each one of these strategies.
Goal #1: Stay Composed and Grind it Out
Your hardest task is to stay composed and not let the frustration
of losing get you down. Some athletes will even “pack their
bags” before the game is over. Doing this can turn a 20 point
loss into a 30 point loss quickly. How do you stay composed? First,
you have to let go of the outcome – don’t focus on
losing. Second, focus on what you can do successfully during each
play, point, or shot. For example, a hockey player could focus
on getting a qualify shot on net during his shift.
Goal #2: Focus on Your Performance
You may not win the game, but you can win the inner battle. When
you focus on your performance (and not the outcome of the competition),
you can continue to execute like you trained in practice. For example,
a tennis player can continue to focus on her serve and volley game.
When you are losing, it’s easier to focus on mistakes. And
in this mindset, you can’t focus on improving your performance.
Let go of mistakes and don’t focus on making the same mistakes
again and again.
Goal #3: Learn from the Experience
Do you beat yourself up, become upset, and lose confidence when not
winning or performing poorly? Many athletes are tough on themselves
when losing. Sometimes I think this is born out of human nature – wanting
to perform as well as you can each time you compete.
“Many
of life's failures are people who did not realize how close
they were to success when they gave up.”
~Thomas Edison
But the reality
is that you can’t be in the zone every time
you compete and you can’t win every game. That’s why
it is important to remember that in order for you to continue to
improve as an athlete you need to learn from failures. Learning from
defeat seems like a contradiction. Some of my students argue that
nothing good can come from losing a game or failing. I Agree – but
only when you lose confidence, throw composure out the window, and
beat yourself up for losing. In reality, however, you can learn the
best lessons in light of a failure – no matter how big or how
small. Losing provides an opportunity to assess your performance
and improve your weaknesses!
If you want to
learn all my composure-boosting strategies, I suggest you snag
a copy of "The
Composed Athlete," part 3 of my ground-breaking
CD programs in The
Confident Athlete Series.

Sports
Specific Mental Training Tip
"I
Just Focus on What I Need to Do!"
According
to Tiger Woods, it does not matter if you are the favorite or underdog
when you compete. It's not really relevant to your performance.
You still need to execute your best one shot or play at a time.
If you focus on your job or task and do what you need to do in
the process, the results will take care of themselves. I'm a big
advocate of this approach.
“To
be honest with you, I go out and play. If someone wants to say
that I'm the favorite, then so be it; the underdog, so be it.
But I just need -- I just focus on what I need to do."
~Tiger
Woods (2000 U.S. Open)

Podcasts
of the Month
The
Sports Psychology Podcast of the Month!
In this week's sports psychology podcast, Dr. Cohn
talks about how to have a positive image of yourself as an athlete.
Some athletes who have potential in sports wish they could play well
versus knowing they can play well or reach a higher level of competition.
Listen to this month's sports psychology podcast...
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Psychology Podcast of the Month!
The
Golf Psychology
Podcast of the Month!
In
this week's golf psychology session, mental game of golf expert
and author of The
Mental Game of Golf, Dr. Cohn, helps golfers who feel pressure
from their parents to play well. Many
golfers want to please or impress their parents, which is a natural
instinct, but can cause fear of failure. Learn how to throw out expectations
and play for yourself.
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Pro
Athlete Quote of the Month
"You
Can't Leave Anything in the Tank"
“I
feel focused, good concentration. You know you can't leave anything
in the tank, and that's every game, you've got to leave everything
out there on the floor, and you've just got to look at the big
picture of what you're trying to accomplish and what you're willing
to do to accomplish that.”
~James Posey,
Boston Celtics

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Doc Cohn
"How
do I encourage my child to be more assertive?"
Soccer Parent:
"My son is just
not very aggressive when it comes to soccer try-outs. He’s
not one to really show himself on the field. His skills are excellent,
but he lacks the competitive edge that some of the lesser skilled
players have. How do I encourage him to be more assertive on the
field?"
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Patrick J. Cohn is the President and founder of Peak Performance Sports
of Orlando, Florida. He earned his Ph.D. in Education from the University
of Virginia in 1991, and founded Peak Performance Sports in 1994. Dr.
Cohn is an author, speaker and one of the nation's leading mental game
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goals. Dr. Cohn has helped athletes from a variety of sports backgrounds
(both amateurs and professionals) identify and develop the mindset needed
to achieve peak performance. World-class golfers, runners, shooters and
auto racers, as well as motocross, tennis, baseball, softball, football
and hockey players, are among those who have benefited from his mental
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