Having Fun While Performing at Your Best

More Fun and Performing Better

Why Did You Start Playing in the First Place

Do you have fun when you compete? Is sport enjoyable for you, or does it cause added stress in your life?

You would think athletes have a deep passion and love for competing, but that is not always the case…

Many athletes admit that competing is not fun. High expectations and pressure have taken the fun out of competing for many athletes today. Why do some athletes find competing no longer enjoyable?

Think back to when you first started participating in your sport? Practices were fun. Competitions were exciting. You couldn’t wait to get home from school so you could go to practice. You enjoyed being around your teammates. Probably, many of your teammates were your close friends.

Unfortunately, as some athletes grow older something changes. Practices feel like an obligation. You fear failure. Everything about your sport is more serious. You feel you are constantly being judged.

You view wins, personal bests, trophies, or accolades as the most important aspects of competition. When you focus on results, pressure and stress dominate your mind…

High expectations become unbearable.

  • “If I don’t beat this person, I’m a failure.”
  • “If I don’t perform at a high level, I won’t get a scholarship.”
  • “If I don’t win, my parents will be angry.”
  • “If I make any mistakes, my teammates will get upset with me.”

All the if’s lead to higher expectations, more pressure to perform, greater fear of failing, and less enjoyment of competing.

Let’s look at this issue through the lens of an Olympic athlete. Maddie Mastro is a 21-year-old snowboarder preparing for her second Olympics at the 2022 Beijing Winter Olympics.

At the 2018 PyeongChang Winter Olympics, Mastro fell short of her goal of medaling, finishing 12th in the halfpipe. Mastro explained how pressure and high expectations affected her performance:

MASTRO: “I was 17, turning 18 at the last Olympics, so I was young. I’ve had a lot of time to grow and learn… I’m going to go into the next Olympics not worrying what people are going to think, not worrying about the expectations or the pressures, whether they’re exterior or my own.”

For the 2022 Olympic Games, Mastro has shifted her mindset. Mastro is primarily focused on having fun and executing her game plan.

MASTRO: “I’m just going to prioritize having fun and landing tricks, which is something I wish I did more of in 2018, because I did let those expectations or pressures, kind of, eat away at me a little bit. And this time, I’m just going to go treat it like any other contest and have fun.”

When you focus too much on results and want it badly, you become anxious and underperform. You can avoid falling into that trap by choosing a different mindset.

Focusing on having fun and executing your game plan increases your chances of success. In addition, you will re-ignite the passion you experienced when you were a younger athlete. Shifting your mindset to a productive and positive perspective is a win-win proposition.

Tip for Focusing on the Fun of Competing

Every day before you train or compete, remind yourself the reasons you started competing in the first place. Write a list of the reasons you had fun as a young athlete.

Make these objectives–what you enjoyed about sports–a priority when you compete today.

Next, release yourself of the high expectations you have (or feel from others), such as to perform at your best all the time or be perfect. Expectations are the root of dissatisfaction when you don’t meet them.

Uncover your “shoulds” or “shouldn’ts.” I should not make mistakes, I should make coach happy, or I should always perform my best are examples of expectations you want to discard to have more fun.

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The Focused Athlete

It’s probably no secret that you have many opportunities to become distracted in sports. Athletes are bombarded with both internal and external distractions everyday in practice and competition. Focused athletes are able to get the most from their skills because they are more efficient with practice and more concentrated in competition. Athletes who lack focus let distractions run wild through their mind and don’t know how to adjust or refocus.

The Focused Athlete was developed for any level coach, parent, or junior to professional athlete who wants to improve performance and gain a competitive edge. It does not matter if you are a fledgling junior athlete; or a seasoned professional, plagued with distractions; or you just wanting to learn how to improve concentration…

“The Focused Athlete” is a complete system to teach you how to focus like a champion and harness the power of a zone focus every time you step on the playing field, court, track, or course in practice and games!

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